My Actifit Report Card: October 7 2026
Wednesday
I left home at 5:40 in the morning as I had a loooong day ahead of me.
I was home at 17:40, so 12 hours on the go.
First day at my new job, and things went pretty well. After work, I took a quick snack and sat down to relax.
While I sat there, I saw this funny little happy face on the wall 😂
do you see it?
Also while sitting there, I thought I both heard and saw this amazing creature.. alas, I have promised this amazing creature that I'll not disturb at work.. so I actually panicked, got up, and left.
Told her about it later during the evening, and she said it was only in the actual office and I shouldn't have left.
Oh well...
We had a somewhat good talk afterwards.
On one of the stations along the way, I saw they're not done building there yet.
Bridge is nearly complete
All in all it was largely a good day with just a few downsides.. or regrets, maybe 😅
Thank you for reading!
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Hello @caspermoeller89, congratulations on your first day at the new job, and I am glad it went pretty well! Almost 10,000 steps on a day of twelve hours away from home is a great result. I am an Actifit user too, so I always enjoy seeing how other people walk through their day. It was also nice to see the bridge that is nearly complete, and the smiley face game on the wall was a fun idea.
The mystery of the unusual creature in the office made me curious, and I hope the good talk afterwards helped. How was your second day, and did the creature show up again?
Matteo - Ca' Paradiso, Cagli 🌿
Original messagewww.caparadiso.com
Ciao @caspermoeller89, congratulazioni per il primo giorno nel nuovo lavoro, e sono contento che sia andato abbastanza bene! Quasi 10.000 passi in una giornata di dodici ore fuori casa sono un ottimo risultato. Anch'io uso Actifit, quindi mi piace sempre vedere come gli altri vivono la loro giornata camminando. Mi è piaciuto anche vedere il ponte quasi finito, e il gioco dello smile sul muro era un'idea divertente.
Il mistero della strana creatura in ufficio mi ha incuriosito, e spero che la bella chiacchierata dopo ti abbia aiutato. Com'è andato il secondo giorno, e la creatura si è fatta rivedere?
Matteo - Ca' Paradiso, Cagli 🌿
www.caparadiso.com
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The amazing creature I mention is the woman I'm... dating, I guess.
She has a very rough time, and because of her past she tends to withdraw herself when things get rough, so I haven't seen her in 3 weeks. It's tough because she think she has to deal with things on her own. I'm just showing her that I'm not leaving and that I'm nothing like anyone she has dated before.
I'm hoping that will show her that she can open up to me, and that nothing she's dealing with will make me go away.
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Thank you for answering so openly, @caspermoeller89. I am sorry to hear that she is going through a hard time, and it is kind and patient of you to stay close without pressure. When someone has had difficult experiences, they often need time and space, and the most helpful thing is often what you are already doing: being calm, consistent and present, with small signs like a message to say you are thinking of her, and without asking her to explain or open up before she is ready.
Three weeks can feel long, but trust grows slowly, through simple actions that repeat over time. I hope she will feel safe enough to open up, and I wish you both the best. If it becomes heavy for you too, talking with a friend you trust can help.
Matteo - Ca' Paradiso, Cagli 🌿
Original messagewww.caparadiso.com
Grazie per aver risposto con tanta sincerità, @caspermoeller89. Mi dispiace sapere che lei sta passando un momento difficile, ed è gentile e paziente da parte tua restarle vicino senza fare pressione. Quando una persona ha vissuto esperienze difficili, spesso ha bisogno di tempo e di spazio, e la cosa più utile è spesso quella che stai già facendo: essere calmo, costante e presente, con piccoli segnali come un messaggio per dire che le stai pensando, senza chiederle di spiegare o di aprirsi prima che sia pronta.
Tre settimane possono sembrare lunghe, ma la fiducia cresce piano, con azioni semplici che si ripetono nel tempo. Spero che si senta abbastanza al sicuro da aprirsi, e auguro il meglio a entrambi. Se diventa pesante anche per te, parlarne con un amico di cui ti fidi può aiutare.
Matteo - Ca' Paradiso, Cagli 🌿
www.caparadiso.com
Yeah, I sort of know her pattern. I'll be staying, I know what both of us want (and need).
It's up to her to fight her urge to run away. And I truly hope she can fight that urge!
!BBH !ALIVE !HEARTBEAT !SLOTH
I understand, @caspermoeller89, and I think you're doing the most important thing you can do: being there, steady, without pushing. 🤝
When someone has the urge to run away, a door left open matters more than a door held shut. Knowing that you're not going anywhere, and that she can come back whenever she's ready, can be exactly what makes her feel safe enough to stay. 🌱
You can't fight that battle in her place, but you're already giving her the best support possible. Just remember to take care of yourself too, especially now that you're also starting a new job with 12-hour days! 💪
I sincerely hope she finds the strength to stay. Sending a big hug to both of you. 🌿
Matteo - Ca' Paradiso, Cagli 🌿
Original messagewww.caparadiso.com
Capisco, @caspermoeller89, e credo che tu stia facendo la cosa più importante che puoi fare: esserci, con costanza, senza forzare. 🤝
Quando una persona sente l'impulso di scappare, una porta lasciata aperta conta più di una porta tenuta chiusa. Sapere che tu non te ne vai e che lei può tornare quando si sente pronta può essere proprio ciò che la fa sentire abbastanza al sicuro da restare. 🌱
Non puoi combattere quella battaglia al posto suo, ma le stai già dando il miglior sostegno possibile. Ricordati solo di prenderti cura anche di te stesso, soprattutto ora che stai iniziando anche un nuovo lavoro con giornate di 12 ore! 💪
Spero sinceramente che lei trovi la forza di restare. Un grande abbraccio a entrambi. 🌿
Matteo - Ca' Paradiso, Cagli 🌿
www.caparadiso.com
Thank you! I believe in me and her despite everything that's going on.
Eventually she will realise that I am here for the long term. The real, unconditional love. Her system will be able to fight her urge once there is enough proof of me staying and not going anywhere
!BBH !ALIVE !HEARTBEAT !SLOTH
That's beautiful, @caspermoeller89. ❤️
Unconditional love speaks with actions more than with words, and every day you stay is one more proof she can rely on. Trust is built exactly like that, one small brick at a time. 🧱🌱
I'm rooting for both of you. And remember: unconditional love also includes a little love for yourself, so take good care of you along the way. 🤗
Matteo - Ca' Paradiso, Cagli 🌿
Original messagewww.caparadiso.com
È bellissimo, @caspermoeller89. ❤️
L'amore incondizionato parla con i fatti più che con le parole, e ogni giorno in cui resti è una prova in più su cui lei può contare. La fiducia si costruisce proprio così, un piccolo mattone alla volta. 🧱🌱
Faccio il tifo per tutti e due. E ricorda: l'amore incondizionato comprende anche un po' d'amore per te stesso, quindi prenditi cura di te lungo il cammino. 🤗
Matteo - Ca' Paradiso, Cagli 🌿
www.caparadiso.com
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